Im I a drunk and a pothead? I think so?

So I just turned 17, and I drink. A lot. I smoke also. A lot. I do bad things like sneak out of my house at night. A lot. When I get drunk, I fall asleep and the guy Im talking too says I probably get touched and penetrated but I say I do not. How do i convince him that I am not a drunk or a pothead? Or a bad seed all together?